Sunday Mirror (Northern Ireland)

DUCHESS TALKS OF MOTHERHOOD

- BY RUSSELL MYERS Royal Editor

THE Duchess of Cambridge admits she often suffers “mum guilt” as she juggles family life.

Kate says raising George, six, Charlotte, four, and 21-month-old Louis with husband William can leave her fraught with insecurity. And at times, it has also been lonely.

The Duchess, 38, who opened up about the highs and lows of parenthood to Giovanna Fletcher in her popular “Happy Mum, Happy Baby” podcast, also says she has found ways to keep happy and strong.

She reveals that special breathing techniques were a saving grace during her pregnancie­s, while enjoying the great outdoors with her kids has now become one of her greatest loves.

Kate’s chat with Giovanna – also the wife of McFly star Tom Fletcher – aired yesterday.

ON GOING PUBLIC

She admits it was “slightly terrifying” when she revealed her first baby George to the world a day after giving birth. But she and William, 37, decided this was a moment the public should share with them.

She says: “For us to be able to share that joy and appreciati­on with the public, I felt was really important.

“But equally it was coupled with a newborn baby and inexperien­ced parents, and the uncertaint­y of what that held, so there were all sorts of mixed emotions.”

It was July 2013 when the Duchess emerged on the steps of London’s famous Lindo Wing at London’s St Mary’s hospital.

She and William were so determined not to mess up they even practised putting a baby doll in a car seat so they’d know what to do in public.

Kate reveals: “We were like, ‘What do we do?... in a swaddle? How’s this supposed to work?’ It was quite hard to do that on the world’s stage.”

Their approach couldn’t have been more at odds with how the Duke and Duchess of Sussex handled things.

When Meghan gave birth to Archie on May 6 last year, Prince Harry made the low-key announceme­nt outside their then-home at Frogmore Cottage, Windsor. Their first photocall with Archie was two days later in Windsor, but with an invites-only crowd.

ON HYPNOTHERA­PY

Hypnobirth­ing helped Kate get through labour after difficult pregnancie­s with severe morning sickness – known as hyperemesi­s.

The technique uses a mix of deepbreath­ing exercises, visualisat­ion and mindfulnes­s to help curb pain.

Speaking of her pregnancie­s, she says: “I was really sick. I wasn’t eating the things I should be eating, but yet, the baby was still able to take the goodness from my body and to grow new life, which I think is fascinatin­g.

“Actually it was through hyperemesi­s that I really realised the power of the mind over the body. I’m not going to say that William was standing there sort of chanting sweet nothings to me – he definitely wasn’t! I didn’t even ask him about it, but it was just something I wanted to do for myself.

“I saw the power of it... the meditation and the deep breathing and things like that, that they teach you in hypnobirth­ing, when I was really sick

 ??  ?? For us to be able to share our joy with the public, I felt was really important
We’d actually practised putting a doll in a car seat so we didn’t mess it up
If I’m not there, Charlotte and George are like, ‘How can you not be dropping us off?’
For us to be able to share our joy with the public, I felt was really important We’d actually practised putting a doll in a car seat so we didn’t mess it up If I’m not there, Charlotte and George are like, ‘How can you not be dropping us off?’

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