I want to teach kids about abuse so no one suffers like I did
SUNDAY MIRROR
important we heard it. Now I’ll know what signs to look out for if this is happening to me or one of my friends.”
Amy Callow, 17, added: “Hearing it from someone just like us, who has actually been through an abusive relationship, brought it home that this could happen to me. It’s scary, but we need to know.”
Adele, from Lowestoft, Suffolk, has released a book about her experience called Brave. She explained: “Anthony controlled every part of my life – I had to get rid of my Facebook, I wasn’t allowed to see my friends, I wasn’t allowed to wear make up.
“At first I was flattered he wanted to spend so much time with me. It was amazing my older boyfriend wanted to meet me after school to walk me home.
“But it isn’t normal and I should never have stayed. It’s so much easier to leave in the early stages of a relationship.” Our campaign is supported by Labour MP and f o r mer D i r e c t o r of Pu b l i c Prosecutions Keir Starmer QC.
He said: “There is clear evidence that teenagers are at risk of abuse in relationships – sometimes at very serious risk.
“The idea domestic abuse is somehow a problem only in adult relationships is wrong. Educating children about abusive and controlling behaviour is essential.”
Kevin Courtney, general secretary of the National Union of Teachers, added: “We strongly support age-appropriate sex and relationships education becoming a statutory requirement in all schools.
“It can empower young pupils with self- confidence and provide access to discussions about ways to stay safe.”
And Siobhan Freegard, founder of video parenting website channelmum.com , said: “Guiding children to spot the signs of an abusive relationship is much-needed.
“It will mean fewer people fall prey to abusers – and will also ensure they have the support and strength to leave.”
Also backing our campaign is the domestic abuse charity Women’s Aid. Chief executive Polly Neate said: “We applaud Adele’s bravery in taking this action.
“We must do more to help children and young people understand what abuse is, and what a healthy relationship is like. The Government should make this a priority.”