25 YEARS AFTER MASSACRE I made a split second decision to save a baby days after losing my own and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done
EXPLOSIONS going off all around her, drained after fleeing genocidal troops, Mevlida Lazibi looked at the sleeping baby and made the decision of her life in a split second.
Desperate to get the five-week-old infant away from the hell of war, her grandmother thrust the child at Mevlida and begged her to take her.
There was no time to think. Mevlida tucked the baby, wrapped in just a blanket, into her coat and ran for her life, emotions tearing through her mind.
Just days earlier she had delivered her own stillborn baby while fleeing soldiers who slaughtered men and raped women.
Mevlida had buried her little girl in an unmarked grave in woodland.
Now, two days after her 25th birthday, she was being given a chance with another baby who had been abandoned in Srebrenica as chaos and panic swept Bosnia in 1992. The three-year war that followed saw horror upon horror. But for Mevlida and baby Sara Hukic, there was an escape – to Britain.
And today, in the week of the 25th anniversary of the Srebrenica Massacre and 28 years to the day that she rescued Sara, mother and adopted daughter talk about their unbreakable bond.
Mevlida, 53, said: “The choice was to leave her to die or take her and save her. And I would never leave someone to die.”
GRATEFUL
Sara, 28, said: “I feel so proud of my mother. You can’t do anything without a backbone and that’s what my mum has.
“Not everyone is able to go through a war, let alone take a child that isn’t biologically theirs and look after that child, especially when they have nothing.
“It’s made me who I am today, especially with my own kids, seeing how she was towards me and the love that she had towards me.
“I don’t know where I would be without my mum, she might not have given birth to me but a mother is not somebody who births you, a mother is somebody who raises you.
“Honestly, I’m so grateful for her – she’s one in a million.”
The Srebrenica Massacre saw more than 8,000 Bosniaks – ethnic Muslims, mostly men and boys – slaughtered between July 11 and July 22, 1995.
The killings were carried out by a Bosnian Serb army controlled by Ratko Mladic – known as the Butcher of Bosnia. In 2017 he was jailed for life at The Hague for war crimes, crimes against humanity and genocide.
Mevlida, then a trainee teacher, was among many who had to flee as the Bosniaks were persecuted. She was born into an affluent family and, with her husband Azan and extended family, lived on her parents’ farm in Srebrenica, on the border between Bosnia and Serbia.
The breakdown of socialist Yugoslavia led to bloodshed as states such as Croatia and Slovenia agitated for independence.
Bosnia was declared independent following a referendum in 1992 and war erupted soon after. Neighbours turned against Mevlida’s family because they were Muslim.
All hell broke loose as
Bosnian Serb troops moved in
– capturing and torturing Mevlida’s oldest brother Mustsfa simply for being a wealthy Muslim. Other family members were taken away in buses.
Then the bloodshed began and people either ran for their lives or were rounded up and butchered.
Mevlida said: “They slaughtered people like they weren’t even animals.
“They were taking men, women and children to the bridge and slaughtering them and throwing them in the river.
“The river was completely red with blood from the Muslims. We tried to hide, we tried to escape.”
Two of her brothers tried to defend people with broken tail pipes torn from motorbikes.
Mevlida became separated from her husband in the chaos and still does not know what happened to him.
TORCHED
She managed to hide and escape with her parents Husein and Hafib, and her brother Sadik’s wife and children.
They fled to a forest and watched horrified as their home was torched and farm animals were burned alive.
Another brother Ibro reached them and gave Mevlida and her mother an explosive device each – saying they should blow themselves up rather than be captured. She said: “He said to me, ‘If they come to capture you just kill yourself. It’s better to kill yourself because they’ve started raping and torturing women and young girls’.”
Yet more heartache was about to come. Mevlida was heavily pregnant, starving and cold. Her baby stopped moving and she gave birth to the stillborn girl two days later. She buried the child among the trees.
In desperation, the group headed to the centre of Srebrenica, where Mevlida’s married sister Hafiza gave them shelter.
It was then that fate brought Mevlida and Sara together.
Mevlida said: “A girl whose mum I knew had left her. Unfortunately many mothers left their babies, sometimes they couldn’t watch them be hungry and also it’s the stress, mentally. I took her and just wanted to look after her.”
A United Nations humanitarian team