Civil servant to marry £130 an I’m happy for fiancee to sleep with men for money

SHY civil servant Andrew Hamer was so unlucky in love that he booked a sex session with a prostitute.

It was meant to be strictly business but the encounter led to romance, a proposal and an engagement.

Now Andrew, 48, who lives with his 78- year- old mum, is looking forward to married life.

And he doesn’t mind if his bride carries on her work as an escort.

Andrew booked porn star and £130-an-hour prostitute Kat Lee, 31, for sex last autumn.

He fell in love and persuaded her join him on a trip to Paris, where he asked her to be his girlfriend.

When they returned he proposed in his mother’s house with a £200 diamond ring from H Samuel.

Now Kat will be married in white before the year is out. And Andrew’s mum has given her blessing.

Overjoyed Andrew makes it clear that he doesn’t have a problem with Kat continuing as a prostitute.

He said: “There are too many people who judge but I am objective. I can separate what is Kat’s job. I doubt it will ever come between us.” In her work, Kat can sleep with up to five men a day, always practising safe sex. Andrew says they have a normal sexual relationship – even after she has had a day like that.

He said: “I know she’s working but I don’t think of her as being with other men. It’s a job. She’s having sex but she’s not making love. Not like we do.

“I differentiated it right from the start.

“What we have together is special. I never knew love could be so wonderful.

“I have at last found a l ovely g i r l who is sympathetic, caring and very sweet. She is all I have ever wanted. I’m a lucky man.”

His mum Lillian said: “I’m thrilled to bits. Andrew is so happy with Kat. There’s nothing at all I could say wrong about her.

“I’ve never seen him smile and laugh as much as he has done since this wonderful woman came into his and my life. She has lifted the whole mood of the house.

“Kat is charming, thoughtful and caring. I know what she does for a living. Andrew told me. I wished she didn’t do it but that’s her choice. We never mention it. I don’t want to embarrass her.

“She is such a sweet and lovely person. I told her she’s like a daughter to me. She hugged me with tears in her eyes.

“I judge people how they are with