I lost my virginity at 39. I never thought I’d find love
me. I don’t listen to tittle tattle.” Lillian, who used to manage a team of 30 at an insurance firm in Manchester, added: “I count myself as a good judge of character. I’m looking forward to the wedding. I’m getting a big hat.”
Andrew, who works in motorway planning, said: “I told my closest friends at work. They were very pleased for me. Their views are liberal.”
Kat has starred in blue movies including Sugar Daddy and Vampyre Lovers and has achieved a certain renown.
She appeared on Jeremy Kyle in 2009 with her twin sister Kit to talk about their career in porn films. Last year she went on This Morning to talk about how she was giving students discounts for sex. She told hosts Eamonn Holmes and Ruth Langsford: “You get student discount on pizza so why not this?” Andrew said he had spoken to Kat’s sister on the phone and invited her to the wedding. He recalled: “She was very friendly. I’ve not spoken to her mother. “Kat’s relationship is strained with her mother.” He added that Kat considers Lilian as her “adopted mum”. Kat said: “Andrew came to me as a client in October and we clicked immediately. He took me to Paris last month and we had a wonderful time. “He asked me to be his girlfriend and I accepted. I can’t believe Andrew proposed. “Now we both want a family – children and lots of them. If I get pregnant I’ll stop working. “Andrew is wonderful. He is such a lovely person and I couldn’t help falling in love. I am so very, very lucky to have met him.” She said of her work: “I see around five clients a day. It’s my job. It’s what I do, what I am known for. “I can separate it from what I have with Andrew. He’s made me very happy. My regret is that I could have had a normal nine- to- five job like a drama teacher, which is what I wanted to do.
“I really want a normal job now because I’m getting to that age when I want to settle down. But it’s difficult if people google my background.
“Sometimes they have seen me on This Morning or Jeremy Kyle, then afterwards you do get nasty messages.
“But when people meet me they think I’m a really nice person.””
Kat, who has been doingoing porn and escorting since shehe was 18, added: “If youngng people want to get intoo the industry I would warn them to really think about it first.
“Everybody thinks it is a glamorous lifestyle but t it’s got pros and cons.”
Andrew, from Manchester,ster, admitted his shyness madede him “a late starter with the ladies...adies but I blossomed with Kat”.
He said: “I had no confidence with women and didn’t date at all. I’ve had a romance previously, two relationships, but it was nothing like I have with Kat.”
Andrew lost his virginity to a prostitute when he was 39 but it was no triumph.
He recalled: “She was nasty and aggressive with me. It was a bad experience. I thought I’d never find love. Kat is a different person altogether. I’d seen videos of her and heard her talking and laughing online so I phoned her and booked her for sex. “She made me confident, something I’ve never had in my life with women. “I work hard but at the same time so does she. I don’t want her to give up her job. It’s what she does and when you love someone you want them to be happy. That’s why we are perfect together.” “I’veI ve had wo women use me for money and tak take advantage of my kindn kindness in the past and I’ve bee been deeply hurt.” “Mum has been quite ill r recently and needed hospital treatment and Kat took her and spent the day with her waiting o on wards and for her p prescription. “My mum idolises Kat, an and that means the world to m me. I think Kat guessed I was going to propose because I borrowed a ring she wears so I could get the correct size engagement ring. “I don’t begrudge a penny of what it cost. She is worth it. “She is the shining light in my life and means the world to me. “We’re planning a big white traditional wedding before the end of the year. It will be the best day of our lives.”