Sunday People

£32,000 winners

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“I didn’t even know my husband played the Postcode Lottery. Without that win we could never have Grayson.

“And we were so happy it was Sarah carrying him. I have known her for two years now – and Grayson will always know his Aunty Sarah. We were delighted that someone was prepared to do this for us.”

Single Sarah had decided to become a surrogate mum after seeing her own aunt struggle to have children 10 years ago.

While many of her pals were going out partying and finding a boyfriend, the caring support worker’s main aim in life was to help a childless couple become parents.

So Sarah, who lives with her mum Carol, 48, and her brother Craig, 17 in Birmingham, signed up to Surrogacy UK in May 2015 when she was just 22.

While surrogates cannot be paid, it is legal to compensate them for time off work and expenses such as transport to appointmen­ts and treatment. The McGlades covered all expenses for Sarah. The rest of their winnings went on two of three IVF attempts. Sarah says: “Everyone has made a big deal about the fact I’m quite young – but I don’t see it as a big thing. When I gave birth people said, ‘Don’t you love him?’ and I said no.

“I cared about him obviously but there was no maternal instinct there.

“He was never going to be mine. He was always for Katy-Anne and John. To me, it felt the same way you would if you looked after your friends’ house.

“I didn’t get paid for it. They had to compensate my time off from work because if I wasn’t pregnant I would still be at work.

“They also obviously paid for all the tests and the pregnancy stuff.”

Katy-Anne says: “Initially we had a friend who offered to be a surrogate for us – then she couldn’t do it. The first thought was to try to get IVF treatment on the NHS but they tried to say they didn’t think it was going to work.

“We just felt they were putting a lot of barriers in the way.” Then came the lottery win. “So we started looking into private treatment,” says Katy-Anne. After the McGlades, from Motherwell,l, met Sarah through

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