I think he still had a hard-on when he left for work next morning!

FIRST BLOWJ0B CINDI: I was at a mate’s party the first time I gave a blowjob. I was drunk, pulled one of the guys who was there and when he asked me if I’d like to do it, I thought it was a good idea.

The only place we could find that was empty was the toilet so we did it in there. I must done it right because he was hard as a rock and came in just a few minutes. I spat straight into the shower, which must have taken the edge off his pleasure a bit, I guess. CARA: I gave my first blowjob to my ex- boyfriend. We’d been down the handjob and fingering route and it seemed like the next logical step.

I did it to him one night when we were watching a movie in his bedroom. But as soon as I started it I wished I hadn’t because he kept jabbing the back of my throat. It took about 10 minutes to make him come and my jaw was starting to ache when he finally did. I swallowed because it seemed rude not to.

FIRST TIME CINDI: Losing my virginity was quite daunting. I did it with a guy I knew from college at a friend’s house. We fancied each other like mad and somehow ended up in an empty bedroom together.

It was totally spontaneous but it felt like the right time to do it. He knew what he was doing so I let him get on with it. It lasted about 10 minutes and was quite good, I enjoyed it. It was a big relief to get it over and done with. CARA: I lost my virginity in my boyfriend’s bed. We’d planned it the day before and I was really excited because I thought it was going to be the best time of my life.

I have to say that was a bit hopeful in retrospect, he was rubbish and came in just two minutes. I was mortified and at the time wasn’t that bothered if I never had sex again. four years ago. It freaked me out at first because it felt so unusual. I gave it a good five minutes but when neither of us had come, we gave it a rest. Maybe I was doing it wrong. CARA: I haven’t tried bum sex... yet. A couple of my friends have done it and they loved it. I’m sure I’ll give it a go someday – I want to try all kinds of sex. FIRST TIME DRESSING UP CINDI: Last year I dressed up for my boyfriend. It was his 18th birthday and I wanted to make it a night to remember, so I dressed up in a PVC nurse’s outfit. He was very surprised but I’d never seen him

FIRST ONE- NIGHT STAND CINDI: The guy I had my first one- off with was great in bed and quite good looking too. I had been out on the town one night when I got chatting to him and it was obvious we really fancied each other.

We went back to his place and the rest is history. He knew his way around the bedroom and we had sex for over an hour, it was brilliant. I had absolutely no regrets the next day. CARA: I was at a polo- cross event when I had my first one- night stand. After it finished I ended up pulling one of the lads who I’d been hanging