Keep smiling even behind your face mask, says Debrett’s

‘Your mouth may be covered but a smile is still visible in your eyes and the rest of your face’

WHEN it was founded in 1769 as the last word on modern manners, face masks were probably not what high society had in mind.

Still, even Debrett’s must move with the times as the style guide advises on how to overcome the “communication challenges” of a Covid-19 face covering.

It notes the importance of remaining “friendly and approachable” in public and suggests making eye contact with others and maintaining a smile − even if it cannot be seen.

“Covering the bottom half of our faces can present communication challenges, concealing one’s expression and muffling speech,” says Debrett’s.

“Wearing one can also make us feel ‘closed off’ from the world, while seeing others in masks can induce a sense of wariness.”

In a four-point plan, published online, the etiquette guide suggests: “Don’t shy away from eye contact.”

“We’re all still getting used to the new normal, but eye contact will become even more important when we can’t gauge each others’ expressions,” it states, claiming it is the “basis of trust”.

Advising that a smile can go a long way, it adds: “Your mouth may be covered, but a smile is still visible in your eyes and the rest of your face. It also suggests being “mindful of body language” and advises against slouching and sitting with crossed arms.

Debrett’s Guide to Hosting & Entertaining, which will be published in Oct 2020, is expected to include updated recommendations such as replacing the best china with disposable paper plates when holding dinner parties and avoiding shared towels in the bathroom or lavatory.