The Daily Telegraph

‘Meghan’s powerful message will help break real taboo in society’

- By Victoria Ward

BABY loss charities have praised the Duchess of Sussex for speaking about the “taboo” subject of miscarriag­e, noting that her deeply personal account would help others “enormously.”

Sophie King, a midwife at the charity Tommy’s, said the Duchess’s honesty about her own experience would send a “powerful message” to others who have gone through similar trauma.

Clea Harmer, chief executive of stillbirth and neonatal death charity Sands, said the Duchess had summed up the pain of miscarriag­e perfectly, adding: “The sad reality is that stigma surroundin­g pregnancy loss and baby death leaves many parents feeling isolated, so it helps enormously when someone in the public eye speaks out as it lets everyone affected know they are not alone.”

The Duchess, 39, revealed in an essay in The New York Times that she lost her unborn, second child in July.

Welcoming her candour, Dr Christine Ekechi of the Royal College of

Obstetrici­ans and Gynaecolog­ists said that miscarriag­e “remains a taboo subject”. She said: “It is important that we remove any stigma or shame surroundin­g this issue and adequately support families during this time.

“We welcome open discussion about miscarriag­e and encourage women to share their experience­s, where they feel comfortabl­e to do so.” Ms King echoed the Duchess’s observatio­n that it was something “experience­d by many, but talked about by few”.

She added: “One in four pregnancie­s ends in loss, but it ’s a real taboo in society, so mothers like Meghan sharing their stories is a vital step in breaking down that stigma and shame.

“Meghan’s essay praises the bravery of parents who share their stories, and those who prefer to grieve privately can still find comfort and connection in reading about others’ experience­s.

“Her honesty and openness send a powerful message to anyone who loses a baby: this may feel incredibly lonely, but you are not alone.”

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