Beating the odds
What are the secret signs of a gambling addiction... and how do you approach a loved one you think may have a serious problem?
THE number of people seeking help for gambling problems reached record levels in 2023 – with more people calling a national helpline than ever before.
The National Gambling Helpline say that 52,370 people called asking for counselling, support and further information last year – a 24% increase on the year before, when there were around 42,000.
The Christmas period saw a spike too. The helpline, run by GamCare, saw a 39% increase in calls throughout December 2023 compared to the same time the previous year.
Samantha Turton, head of remote support services at GamCare, says: “While it is concerning to see the rising numbers who need help, we are encouraged that advisers are reporting an increase in calls from people who are reaching out at an earlier stage.”
Dr David McLaughlan, a priory consultant psychiatrist specialising in addictions, says gambling is a particularly challenging addiction to treat – “Because of the access to gambling platforms of people’s phones”. He says: “When the temptation is constantly present, on your phone, in your pocket, it’s much harder to resist.”
Signs to watch out for
NHS England’s mental health director, Claire Murdoch, says: “Gambling addiction is a cruel mental health condition that can ruin people’s lives.”
As with all addictions, people with gambling problems can become consumed mentally and physically with their habit. “People with problematic gambling are often quite secretive and harbour a lot of guilt and shame. They might appear moody, irritable or unpredictable in their moods,” says Dr McLaughlan, who is also the co-founder of Curb, an addictive behaviour change app.
He says: “Some of the telltale signs might include making excuses to explain where money has been spent or asking to borrow money to cover debts and fund further gambling. Often they can be quite depressed and have low selfesteem. There may also be parallel addictions, such as alcohol or cocaine.”
How to approach a loved one
Sometimes family members or partners can be in denial about the person’s problems too, or even enable their addiction unknowingly. But if you are worried about a loved one, try to approach them with kindness and compassion.
“Firstly, acknowledge your own feelings. You might be feeling angry, upset, betrayed and even frightened. It’s okay to have these feelings,” says Dr McLaughlan.
“However, when you approach your loved one, try to talk to them in a non-judgmental way. Create a safe space for them to be open with you. Show them that you care and that you want to help.”
Treatments and support.
The key thing to know is recovery is possible. The best treatments should help the addict understand why their gambling started, and learn practical steps to stay away from problematic behaviours.
“Many of us at the Priory have experience in treating gambling addiction. There’s a variety of talking therapies and even pharmacological approaches to treat underlying issues such as depression, anxiety and ADHD,” says Dr McLaughlan. “There are some fantastic NHS services too, but they’re often overstretched, however, it is still worth speaking to your GP and seeing what support is available.
“GamCare is a great charity with some practical tools to restrict access to gambling websites and platforms as mentioned above.”
He adds: “They have a tool called GamBan which blocks your device from accessing gambling platforms. GamStop is a tool which allows you to self-exclude from all UK gambling apps and websites for free.”