The Scottish Mail on Sunday - You
HOW CAN I RETIRE IN PEACE?
From my many years of counselling, I know about the devastation that affairs can cause. The agony of thinking about your spouse making love to another woman, the thoughts of secret meetings, the deception I am due to retire after 16 years with my current employers. I have built up good working relationships with many people, but the thought of a leaving do with speeches and backslapping fills me with