Till debt do us part ... on the morning of our wedding day
Bride dumps f iance after he lied over unpaid venue bill – then dons her dress to carry on her party and honeymoon without him
TEARS welled up i n Harriet Butler’s eyes as she stepped out on her wedding day, wearing her beautiful gown and with the cheers of her family ringing in her ears.
But they were tears of sadness rather than joy. For Harriet had just dumped her groom – after discovering he had ruined her dream day by failing to pay for their wedding venue.
When relatives broke the devastating news, she initially cried: ‘The wedding is off!’
But in a remarkable display of defiance, she then decided to throw
‘I wasn’t going to let this be a horrible day’
a party anyway in the nearby house where the couple had planned to spend their honeymoon.
‘ Because everyone was here I just thought we should make a day of it,’ said 32-year-old Harriet.
‘ I wasn’t going to let this be a horrible day so I put on my wedding dress, the bridesmaids put on their outfits, everyone else dressed up and the photographer came round too.’
Avoiding calls from her former fi ance Kevin Rogers, Harriet sipped gin and tonics with her friends and posed for photographs in a dinghy lent to them by the local mayor in Bude, Cornwall. After heading into town where Harriet braved innocent shouts of congratulations from locals, the group tucked into a wedding breakfast at a Chinese restaurant.
‘Everyone was being really positive for me,’ said Harriet, who lives in Dorset. ‘But I did stop a couple of times and think that it was all a little bit surreal.’
Harriet and Kevin had been due to tie the knot at the boutique An Mor Hotel, which boasts spectacular views of the Cornish coast.
It was close to Crooklets Beach, a beauty spot where Harriet had spent happy childhood holidays and where Kevin had so romantically proposed. They had met in 2015 and Harriet soon became pregnant with Harper, now two. She also has a daughter, Imogen, six, from a previous relationship. When initial payments to the hotel were missed, Kevin reassured his bride- to- be that it was all a misunderstanding.
Harriet discovered the bill had not been paid in full only a few hours before their ceremony was due to start.
‘It’s not just about the money,’ she said. ‘It was also such a kick in the face that he didn’t talk to me about it.’
Last night, 41-year-old Kevin, who had run into business troubles, said he did not tell Harriet to avoid worrying her and was convinced he could sort out things in time. He added: ‘Now I have lost everything. It has broken my heart.’