Op to fix my droopy eyelid has left me looking worse

A MONTH ago, I had an operation to correct ptosis in my right eye. Now I think I’ve been left looking lopsided. My surgeon told me it’d ‘all settle down’ and my GP has no other suggestions. I’m really upset. Do you have any advice?

IN PTOSIS (the ‘p’ is silent), the eyelid droops because of a fault with the muscle. But it isn’t just a cosmetic problem.

Ptosis can interfere with vision and cause eye strain, tiredness and even pain in the upper eyelid and eyebrow.

When there are serious visual problems, doctors will recommend an operation to correct it, involving cutting the muscles and tendons within the eyelid and stitching them so they are shorter than before.

This pulls the eyelid open, helping the person to see properly again.

It could take a few months before the soft tissue and muscle heal totally, and swelling is reduced. So it’s too early for you to be worrying after one month.

While it’s not always the case that the eyes look uneven after ptosis surgery, it is a known complication.

This should have been discussed before you consented to the operation.

If it wasn’t, contact the hospital’s patient advice and liaison service (PALS) about filing a complaint. Details of this service can be found on the hospital’s website.

This operation is not done for cosmetic reasons but if after a few months you are concerned about your appearance then you are entitled to discuss this with your eye surgeon.

I would recommend asking for an appointment with them around five to six months after the surgery. Your GP should be able to arrange this for you.

I AM an 84-year-old woman. I have recently had two urine infections but am now left with pain down below. Is it anything to worry about?

MOST urine infections come with a hefty amount of pain, but it usually clears up when the infection does. If the infection has been properly treated and the GP says it is gone, it’s not normal for pain to stick around.

The most likely cause is a yeast infection called thrush, as antibiotics not only kill the urine infection, but also the friendly bacteria in the intimate area that prevent yeast infections.

Thrush can cause soreness and stinging when going to the loo, so people often mistake these symptoms for an ongoing infection.

It is easy to treat with cream from the pharmacist.

If you fear you have another infection ask your GP to do a new urine test to rule this out.

Bear in mind that after the menopause, it’s particularly common for women to have urine infections that require more than one course of antibiotics.

Some women can develop a painful bladder condition called interstitial cystitis. If your GP suspects this, then tests of the bladder will be important – this may include an ultrasound and something called a cystoscopy, where a camera is inserted into the bladder.

This will also help to rule out much more serious, albeit rarer, causes of the pain such as bladder cancer.

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