The Press and Journal (Aberdeen and Aberdeenshire)
Family of Alice encourage other victims of stalking to speak out
The family of Alice Ruggles have encouraged other victims of stalking to speak out.
SAS hopeful “Harry” Dhillon had terrified her and alienated her from her friends, but despite complaining to the police Ms Ruggles chose not to have him arrested.
In a statement made through the Suzy Lamplugh Trust, which helps people avoid becoming victims of violence, her family said her loss would stay with them for the rest of their lives.
Mother Sue said: “I just keep thinking I can’t believe we didn’t identify the signs of stalking, but you just don’t know when it’s going on.
“Unfortunately when Alice reported it to the police she was very reluctant and told them she didn’t want to get him into any trouble. He hadn’t been violent just very arrogant and controlling.
“In fact, he told her via texts several times ‘I don’t want to hurt you’. He texted me saying he wouldn’t hurt her.
“I would like what happened to Alice to encourage others to seek support if they are worried about someone’s behaviour.”
“I can’t believe we didn’t identify the signs of stalking”