The Scotsman

Wife gave her husband the gift of life with kidney donation

L Couple set for charity cycle event to raise awareness of organ donation

- By ALISTAIR MUNRO

Gill Redmond did not need to worry about what present to buy her husband for Christmas: she’d already given him the gift of life by donating him one of her kidneys.

Mum-of-two Gill stepped up to help when Mark became seriously ill with kidney failure and, without a transplant, was facing up to a life on dialysis.

Now, just months on from surgery, the couple are starting 2017 by preparing to take on a new challenge: a 66-mile cycle around Loch Ness to raise awareness of organ donation.

The pair will take part in Etape Loch Ness on 23 April to show that life goes on for those who have had surgery.

Gill, 47, said: “To be honest, I’m more petrified about this than I ever was about the operation. But we are both determined to complete it to show that there is life after a transplant.

“What this whole experience has taught us is that you only have one life. You have to crack on and pack as much into it as possible, and not waste any opportunit­y that comes along.

“A year ago, it would have been inconceiva­ble for Mark to have considered doing this. This was a no-brainer for me. We encountere­d a problem and we needed a solution: I had the solution that could fix the problem.”

Mark, 51, first became aware of a kidney problem during a routine medical in 1995. He was in the Royal Air Force at the time, flying Nimrods out of RAF Kinloss, and was diagnosedw­ithberger’ssyndrome.

Although it did not affect him at the time, Mark experience­d a drop in kidney function about seven years later and it became difficult for his kidneys to flush out toxins.

His condition gradually deteriorat­ed to the point where he was told that dialysis or a kidney transplant was his only chance of survival. Gill and daughters Neve, 18, and Katie-anne, 15, noticed a huge change in his health.

By this time he had retired fromtheraf­andwaswork­ing in Aberdeen in the oil industry, butwasunab­letocomple­tehis daily commute without stopping off for a nap in the car. Doctors told Mark that a kidney from a sibling was his best chance of finding a match – but as an only child this was not an

0 Gill donated a kidney to husband Mark. Below, the couple with daughters Neve and Katie-anne option. This was when Gillian, his wife of 26 years, asked doctors if she could be considered as a donor.

Mark said: “It was initially very hard for me to accept. I did not want to have a kidney from her Gill because I did not want to put her through any unnecessar­y suffering or put her at risk. It took me quite a while to get my head around the fact that Gill wanted to do this.

“My doctors at Aberdeen Royal Infirmary – who I have to say, along with all the medical profession­als we have encountere­d in the NHS, were absolutely outstandin­g and for whom I have nothing but praise – convinced me that there were no risks to Gill other than those normally associated with any kind of surgery.

Gill and Mark have since convinced more than 40 members of their family and friends to sign up for the national organ donation register, and hope that by taking part in Etape

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