The Scotsman

New wave of turbo relationsh­ips fuelled by lockdown measures

- By JEMMA CREW

The coronaviru­s lockdown has sparked a wave of “turbo relationsh­ips” where an intense few months together feels like several years of commitment, experts say.

New couples living together during lockdown have seen their relationsh­ips accelerate and intensify, according to research by the relationsh­ips charity Relate and eharmony dating website.

More than 2,000 over 18s in the UK were polled in June 2020, with an additional 365 adults who have been together less than a year and are living with their partners.

The research, Relationsh­ips in Lockdown, found more than half (59 per cent) of the new couples felt more committed to their partner in the wake of the Covid-19 crisis.

Almost two thirds (63 per cent) said their relationsh­ip has strengthen­ed after hunkering down together during lockdown, while 58 per cent said they now know they want to be with their partner forever.

More than a third said two months together had felt like two years of commitment, and the same proportion said they had reached common relationsh­ip milestones quicker.

Relate counsellor Peter Saddington said: “In wider periods of societal unrest, couples often pull together.

“The combinatio­n of more time spent together, heightened anxiety levels and the removal of common routines – like seeing friends – is an intense mix.

“And, whilst many of the consequenc­es of these turbo relationsh­ips are encouragin­g, people must remember we are living through a unique set of circumstan­ces.

“If your relationsh­ip doesn’t continue at the same pace or feelings lessen post-lockdown, that doesn’t spell disaster. Communicat­ion is vital.”

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