The Sunday Post (Dundee)

Sudden death hard for both

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Dear June

I LOST my husband suddenly on December 6 last year and I’m finding it very hard to live without him.

I have been regularly attending spiritual meetings but I’m so sad because I never get a reading.

I love and miss him so very much and just need to know he is all right. June, Sunderland.

June Says

A sudden passing is very difficult to deal with due to the initial shock that accompanie­s it.

It will take you a while to accept what’s happened, as in the first few months it can all seem very surreal.

In my experience, those who pass unexpected­ly need time to settle on spirit side. They will be well looked after by those who love them and have previously passed on.

Loved ones are left in disbelief, whereas those who have passed over suddenly are also adjusting to finding themselves no longer part of the physical realms.

Both parties need time to adapt in their own way.

Your husband will be settling in spirit and the time it takes depends on the character of the individual who passed.

Some accept it and settle much faster than others.

Your husband is all right and when the time is correct for your both, I am sure you will receive some signs of confirmati­on with regards to his safe arrival.

A spiritual church might be a nice place to sit as you will be surrounded by a healing vibration.

With the passing of time and the help of a good, well-respected medium, I am sure you will receive the contact you yearn.

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