I did all I could to honour my best friend’s final wish

Dear June

My best friend of more than 40 years passed away two years ago.

She was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2001 and her treatment was successful. Last year the disease was found in her liver and there was nothing they could do.

The last time I saw her was two days before she passed and she made me promise to look out for her son, who was going through some difficulties. Two months ago he passed. Does she know I tried my best? Are they together now?

Linda, East Kilbride.

June Says

Your good friend will have been aware of the efforts you made to keep your promise to her.

There are many people who make promises to those they care about who are dying, even though they know in their hearts the promises will be hard to fulfil.

We do not want those we love to be worrying and most people would promise them the world if it meant they felt settled before passing over.

Of course, we would then do our best to fulfil the promise made, but by then the loved one will be safe and well on spirit side and able to see the full picture regarding the promise made.

As I make my link, I am instantly aware of two ladies and a gentleman drawing forward.

I know one of the ladies is blood related to the younger male (in his thirties?) as they have the same colour of energy, but the other female, although I feel she is very close to them, is not related through blood.

I sense this is your friend and her son and the other lady I feel is your mum.

I am impressed to say they know each other well and they got on extremely well.

I hear Ann being called out but I’m unsure as to which lady the name

pertains. I sense both of these ladies left this world too early due to cancerous conditions.

The younger male stands close by and I strongly sense he passed over accidentally but by his own hand. Were there drugs involved?

Your friend and her son are reunited.

She knows you did your best for him and that his passing was sadly inevitable.

They are all safe. Your mum is also with them and they are surrounding you with love and gratitude.

VERDICT

My friend’s son passed away through a drugs overdose but we think it was accidental as he had been using off and on for years, even before his mum passed.

I did try to keep him on the straight and narrow but it was very hard.

He was 34 and took his mum’s death very hard as they hadn’t been speaking to each other when she was ill because of his drug habit, but through all of that he knew she loved him.

My mum (Ann) passed over from cancer 14 years ago and she knew them well as we were friends from school and grew up together.