Late husband is watching over new grandson

Dear June

My son Gary passed away suddenly two years ago and I cannot seem to get over it. He passed of a heart attack in his car.

I have two other sons and four grandchildren, but I am still grieving Gary’s death. He was 52 years old and had a loving wife with two children.

He has become a grandad since his passing. Does he hear me talk to him all the time? Does he know about the birth of his new grandson?

It is extremely difficult for any parent to lose a child, no matter how old they were.

It is every loving parent’s hope to see their children grow up to have families of their own.

Any parent who has had to endure the loss of their child would never have thought that they would ever feel the devastatingly emotional pain of grief after the loss of their child.

I feel you were protective towards Gary. Was he the youngest of your boys?

I also feel he was a very loving man who held a close bond with his parents and liked to visit often.

He was easygoing and well liked by everyone. I am aware of three individuals drawing close from spirit.

There is a younger male who is more prominent and I can feel love emanating from him towards you.

He stands with an older couple who I sense are connected to you. (Your mum and dad?)

He is with many who have gone before, but remains very close to the lady (your mum?).

They would have had a strong bond during his upbringing and she is very

In February this year, my youngest son, Paul, who lived in Alness, committed suicide.

I think of them all the time and wondered if they are together?

Babs, Dunfermline

Your son Paul and his dad Dennis will definitely be together again. It can be devastating for any partner who is left

Sylvia, Grantown-on-spey

June Says

motherly and protective of him.

This lady had a sudden passing and I am drawn to the chest area with her.

I am impressed to say that you asked this lady to watch out for Gary?

She is looking after him until the day comes when you can both be reunited.

Gary hears you talk to him daily and is closer than you imagine as he surrounds his whole family with love including that of his little grandson.

June Says

VERDICT

I did ask his gran and grandad to look after him.

Gary was very close to my mum, who lived with us after my dad died.

She was like a second mum to him and he was very upset when she died.

She was also taken from us suddenly.

Gary was the youngest of my boys by eight years.

He was sensitive and attentive to us and our needs as he lived close by.

He would have been so proud of his little grandson Aiden, and I am glad he is looking after him from above.

It comforts me to know that he is close.

behind after 66 years of marriage.

To also have to bear another grief so soon after is heartbreaking and following such sad loss, it is natural to think of them all the time.

Until you will all be reunited, please take some comfort in the knowledge that they are together, looking after one another.