He has gone but your man’s love is unconditional

Dear June

My husband passed away very unexpectedly five years ago.

He came home from work early one day saying he did not feel well and went upstairs to lie down for a while.

He asked me to call him in an hour, but he was gone when I went to wake him.

I miss him so much.

The sudden passing of a loved one brings with it, after the initial shock, a sense of a lack of closure.

It can take some time for those left behind to recover from the shock of their loss before grieving begins.

Losing a life partner can also make those left behind feel alone and vulnerable until they begin to adapt to life without their partner.

As I become more aware of many from spirit drawing close, I get the impression your husband hadn’t felt in the best of health for quite some time before he passed.

He was very much a man’s man and his work was manual and very physical. He would never have given in to the feelings of ill health he might have experienced and would have kept to his normal work routine.

I sense it would have been extremely unusual for him to come home early from work.

I feel he was a fair and loyal character of quiet nature, well liked by his peers.

He was a very responsible, reliable person and an extremely hard worker.

There are two males from spirit standing together who would’ve had a close bond during their lives. (Brothers?)

I feel such unconditional love being sent to you and get the strong sense of your mum being close.

smiled at someone I could not see. He passed peacefully less than an hour later. Frances, Glenrothes.

It is comforting for those who have sat with a loved one in their last moments to witness them give a smile of recognition as they become aware of those they love from spirit side who

Jean, Belfast.

June Says

There is also a child in spirit with her that is family connected who I sense did not draw breath on this side of life (stillborn).

She hears you talk to her daily and wanted to let you know she is very close.

I feel she passed a few years prior to your husband and that she had a good relationship with him.

They want you to know they are at peace and will always remain close by, giving you support and surrounding you with love.

VERDICT

My husband worked in construction all of his life, which was a very physical job, and he never missed a day’s work, even though he felt unwell.

He had not been feeling 100% for a few weeks before he died.

He was a man’s man with a quiet nature who was well liked by everyone.

He was close to his brother, who passed in an accident when he was in his 20s.

My mum loved him, too, and treated him like a son. He was devastated when she passed away.

The stillborn child was my sibling as Mum had a loss after I was born. have been waiting for them. Knowing they would soon be fully reunited with those they had previously thought lost is a blessing for those present. When your time inevitably comes, you will remember this experience and will be able to take comfort from it as you know your loved ones will all be there waiting for you.