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Dear June

It’s been eight years since my brother’s suicide and I still feel very guilty about his death.

He had been suffering from depression since his divorce and was trying to gain access to his children but things were not going well and he was becoming more depressed.

The last time I saw him alive was when I last spoke to him about it and told him to be patient.

Does he forgive me for not being as understanding as I should have been? I feel I let him down.

Alan, Cumbria

June Says

It is extremely difficult for those left behind to gain closure after the suicide of a loved one.

It is a part of the grieving process when someone has taken their own life.

Everyone who held any sort of relationship with them will ask the same questions. Why didn’t they come and talk to me? Why didn’t I pick up the signs and realise what was happening? Why didn’t I realise how bad it must have been for them?

Everybody, without exception, feels guilt after the loss of a loved one through suicide.

Those who commit suicide are looked after by those connected to them who have previously passed. There’s no one there who will judge them for their actions.

Once they arrive on spirit side, they are able to see the devastation caused to those they left behind. They will, in time, accept full responsibility and will be encouraged and helped by others on spirit side.

I sense your brother was sensitive and did not like confrontation.

I am aware of two younger males (did he have two sons?) who were left behind and who you interact with and look out for. You make time for them and your brother appreciates this.

I’m shown the number 32 and feel it holds significance with your brother.

He comes forward with your mum and wants you to know they watch over you all. I feel he passed away before your mum and they met up in spirit side.

He wants you to know you “did not let him down” and he has realised he let himself down by not being there for his boys growing up.

You will see him again one day, when you’ll be reunited as a family.

VERDICT

My brother passed away seven years before our mum. She was heartbroken and never got over the loss.

After she died we hoped they would be together.

He was 32 when he died. He was sensitive-natured and not one for sharing his emotions. He seemed to bottle everything up in an effort to cope.

He left two sons behind who are now in their 30s. We have a good relationship and I look out for them and have tried to help as much as I can. I am happy to learn my brother knows this.

Dear June

I recently lost my husband.

We had an up-anddown relationship, married 30 years with two lovely daughters and a one-year-old granddaughter.

I have also lost my parents, two brothers and my in-laws.

I miss them all, especially my mum. I was the only girl and had five brothers.

Is my husband in

contact with them? I hope he is pain free. Anne, Coatbridge

June Says Irrespective of the fact you had a tricky relationship, your husband was a part of your life for a long time and it’s normal to miss him.

On reading your letter, I felt totally surrounded by many of your family members from spirit side. I can feel your husband is settled and no longer in any discomfort.

I sense he was mischievous and would wind people up.

I can also hear the sound of laughter as if many people are gathered together.

They are definitely all together again and safely reunited.