Subtle signs will occur

Dear June

I LOST my husband and soulmate in August.

He was seldom ill but died three weeks after a diagnosis.

I thought I might have had a sign from him by now. I just need to know he is all right.

I am finding it very to carry on. Please help.

Martha, Rutherglen.

June Says

It is still very early days in your grief.

We all look for some signs from our loved ones after they pass over.

Most people ask their loved ones on spirit side for signs when they are upset.

They do not realise they are in fact closing the door on any perceptions or connections they might hold between the spirit and physical realms while they remain in an emotionally-distressed state.

Spirit is always around us but it takes the right conditions to hear, feel or see them.

A good example of this would be that on a cold day you can see your breath but on a warm day you can’t.

This does not mean it’s not there, it means you are not in the correct conditions to be able to see it!

Once your grief is less raw and you are able to sit quietly without becoming emotionally upset when you think of your husband, you will start to become more perceptive and may pick up on any subtle signs that may occur.

Your husband is very close to you and as you begin to emerge from the depths of your grief, you will become more aware of him.