So lonely since quick passing of husband

Dear June

MY husband died nearly a year ago and I am so lonely.

He died of cancer and thankfully for him it was not a long, drawn-out illness but far too quick and unexpected.

I think initially he was in denial and wouldn’t discuss things, then it was too late.

We were unable to have a family and, though friends have been wonderful, it’s not the same.

Did I do what he would have wanted? Is he OK?

Ann, Peebles.

June Says

It is completely understandable after the loss of a partner to feel lonely and it will take time to recover from your grief.

You will, in time, begin to enjoy your life once more (although it will be different) and you will adapt and adjust to a new normality without him.

Wonderful friends are indeed a blessing and I like to think of them as the family we choose.

Your husband arrived safely and will be with loving family.

He would have stood unseen by your side during his funeral, supporting and thanking you for giving him a fond farewell from this side of life.