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Dear June
At 19 I met and married my husband Ian after a short courtship.
He was 22 years my senior but I did not think of what might happen in the future because of the age gap.
We had a good marriage and went on to have a family of four, all girls, during our 27-year marriage.
Two years ago, Ian kept tripping and after numerous tests Motor Neurone Disease was diagnosed and he died less than a year later. I feel my life is over without him.
Cathy, Belfast.
June Says
It is very early days in your grief after the loss of someone you shared most of your life with.
Try not to think about the future too far in advance and focus on getting through a day at a time and then perhaps a week or a month.
Time is a great healer and every few months take a look back to see how far you have travelled in your grief.
Although you may feel vulnerable and lonely just now, you will slowly begin to adapt and adjust to a new way of life without Ian.
You have much to live for and will slowly start to realise this as you gradually emerge from the pain of your grief.
When we lose someone close, it is difficult to imagine carrying on without them.
Although Ian can no longer be with you physically, he will remain close to you on a spiritual level.
You fell in love and shared many happy years together, going on to show your love and bond for one another by having a family.
The years spent together were happy ones despite the 22-year age gap. Age has no place when you truly love someone.
As I sense spirit around me, I’m aware of a man who was protective but not possessive.
I am impressed to say he would have encouraged you to live life to the full by taking on many adventures.
He makes me aware of a very peaceful passing surrounded by his family in familiar surroundings. I sense he passed at home.
I can see a small, portly gentleman with a beaming smile looking at me, with two black dogs sitting at his feet.
I sense he is pushing you forward in a gentle, loving way as if he wants you to carry on with the adventure called life. He will, of course, walk by your side.
VERDICT
Ian had a beaming smile and was quite portly before his illness. I am glad he is back to himself.
He used to say love has no boundaries and age doesn’t matter.
The dogs were our family pets.
We lost one many years ago and the other not long after Ian. I’m happy they are all together.
He did encourage me to try new things as I was always quite a shy person.
I have to say there are days when I feel him around me.
He passed away very peacefully at home, with us all sitting around his bed.