I’m desperate for a sign from my late brother

Dear June Our family split when I was eight. My brothers and I were separated and put into various foster homes. I lost touch with my youngest brother when he moved abroad but maintained a close relationship with my older brother, who passed recently. He’d been ill for a long time and we used to joke that if he died before me he would come back and haunt me. I wish he would. I haven’t had any signs to let me know he is OK. Sheila, Belfast.

June Says

It is not as easy as people think to return to the physical world from spirit.

Many pledge before death to make themselves known but it takes time, effort and energy to accomplish even the subtlest of signs.

It also depends on manner of passing and character.

In my experience, if someone was stubborn and of strong character, it is more than likely they would be able to push forward quicker to make themselves known.

If someone passes unexpectedly, I find they can take a little longer to settle.

Those who pass lose their physical bodies but not their characteristics, so those who were shy or loud would remain the same.

I get the impression your brother was a reserved family man. I sense he passed unexpectedly, even though he had been ill for some time.

I am made aware of an issue with your brother’s blood. I sense something travelled through his system.

He has safely crossed into spirit side and comes forward with a man who has a close bond with him (father figure?).

I smell and taste alcohol so someone was a heavy drinker. I sense this with the father figure. I hear Frank being called. I am shown a photograph of a younger woman with blonde hair who I feel would be related to you both.

I feel a sense of pride projected towards her from spirit side. Do you or your brother have a daughter?

Love is being sent to you from your brother. He also has a strong stubborn streak.

Once he set his mind to something he would fully commit to see it through, so you might get that haunting you wished for after all!

VERDICT

My brother ended up with blood poisoning (sepsis). His heart suddenly gave out at the end. He was a quiet family man who was extremely stubborn. He has a blonde-haired daughter who became a grandma for the first time to a beautiful girl recently. My brother was six years older than me and was close to our dad (who had alcohol issues) before he died. Frank was my late ex-husband. He died nearly 15 years ago and also had alcohol problems. He got on well with my brother and they remained friends after we divorced.