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Dear June

I am a 62-year-old male who is HIV positive. I have not kept in good health for a few years but over the last year my condition has worsened.

My doctor has advised me to put my life into some sort of order and do the things I would like to do while I am still able to.

I lost a partner to the same illness 12 years ago and would like to know if he will be waiting and If he forgives me for my many wrongdoings while we were together. AR, by email

June Says

None of us are perfect. We’ve all done things we wouldn’t do again if we could turn back the clock.

We learn something new every day, no matter our age. This is how we learn and grow, by making many errors, wrong turns and bad decisions.

Through this, we become knowledgeable and more experienced people who can advise and help those we care about make the right choices and decisions and prevent them going through the same discomforts we did.

After the loss of someone close, we go back in our minds to the times we felt we could and should have acted differently.

I am sure many would give anything to be able to go back and change an act or decision that inadvertently caused a loved one hurt.

If we are blessed to grow older, we become more experienced through either personal loss or our ill health.

We then tend to become more patient, understanding and tolerant with others as we realise age and illness is inevitable.

When we’re young we do not fully understand this until we experience the feeling of being unable to do the things we used to as our own bodies become ill or older.

I’m aware of him and can sense he would have been very volatile. He is smiling broadly and wants to let you know he was far from perfect.

I do not sense you to be moody but he makes me feel his mood swings drove you to despair!

I sense you were with him constantly before his passing - did you lie with him - and were attentive to his needs.

You were there when he needed you the most.

He will, without doubt, be there whenever you need him.

VERDICT

We went through some extremely difficult and very emotional, upsetting times in our relationship, which I admit to being the cause of through my own selfish choices and behaviour.

The two months before the end of his life I was with him 24/7.

He thanked me for being there as he knew he was difficult to be with at times because of his mood swings. (Although I think some of the medication he was taking made them worse.)

I did lie next to him just before he passed away.

It has settled me somewhat to know I will see him again and he’ll be there for me.