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Dear June

My wife suffered a stroke several years ago which left her dependent on me.

Her speech was badly affected and she also had difficulty understanding people.

I looked after her at home and became her full-time carer, along with help from our two daughters.

She was taken into hospital, where she had a bad fall she never recovered from. We were all with her when she passed a few days later. I am totally lost without her. Eric, by email

June Says

The loss of a partner you cared for daily can be devastating and many left behind often feel like their life is also over.

You will feel totally lost without her. Your lives revolved around making sure she received the best care.

The death of a loved one who had suffered pain and distress from illness for years means they are no longer confined within an ailing, deteriorating, physical body.

They are finally free and no longer dependent upon others. A totally free spirit.

Your lovely wife will not be far away from you or her girls and will let you all know over time, with little signs, that she remains close.

As I sit quietly reading your letter I have been given the most beautiful picture in my mind’s eye of a wild garden filled with a multitude of differently-coloured flowers.

Within this vision, I can clearly see a lady sitting on a bench looking very content as she takes in the view.

I sense this is a special place for you, too, and that you sit on the same bench to think and talk to her.

I don’t feel there’s a grave or marker for this lady and this bench has become a spiritual meeting place for loved ones to visit her.

I am impressed to say this is your lovely wife and this place held many happy memories for her.

She wants to thank you all for the cards and flowers you gave her after her passing. I can see them all standing on a dark wooden table with flowers in the centre. I do not feel they were bereavement cards.

She sits on the bench in the garden surrounding you all with love when you each take the time to visit her.

She will always be there waiting for you.

VERDICT

Our small garden was where she loved to sit on her good days and it is filled with wild flowers.

There is also a metal bench I used to sit on while she sat in her wheelchair beside me.

We have all sat on that bench, thinking of her and talking to her.

Her ashes have been kept and when I am gone we will be placed together.

The day after her passing was her birthday and we marked it by flowers and placing her cards on the dining table around them.

I am happy to learn she sits with me and hears me talk to her every day.