S&M Tips to make the most of your Bondage Kit with Fifty Shades stars Jamie Dornan & Dakota Johnson

Many people may be quite daunted by the prospect of indulging in BDSM loveplay. But they need not worry, and whilst their are no rules as to what you can and can’t do, Dakota and Jamie have selected a few hints and tips to help you along.

Jamie: “Being restrained can be a great turn on for both of you. Fellas, try fastening your missus to the bed using the paper shackles, then drive her wild by tickling her on the wot not using the paper feather. When you’ve finished, simply swap over.”

Dakota: “Men like a strong, dominating woman. So pretend to be a schoolteacher by tying your hair up in a bun and putting on a pair of glasses. Then tell your fella to bend over and smack him on the arse with the paper paddle until he climaxes.”

Jamie: “Pretend to be someone else to spice up a paper bondage session. Your role play fantasy is only limited by your erotic imagination. Be a swashbuckling pirate having his way with a raven-haired duchess who he’s captured off a Spanish galleon. Or why not be a randy sultan whose eye has been caught by a vestal virgin in his harem? Or you could be a scrapdealer and your partner’s a woman who’s come in with some clearly stolen copper cable, and you’ve threatened to go to the police unless she makes it worth your while with an S&M session behind a skip of non-ferrous metal.”

Dakota: “Remember to agree a safe word with your partner in case it all gets too much and either of you feels uncomfortable with the direction your sub/dom session is taking. And to make sure it isn’t interpreted as part of the game, it needs to be a phrase you would never normally hear, such as ‘Spring comes early in Berlin’, ‘ The red fox trots quietly at midnight’ or ‘That Michael Macintyre is funny, isn’t he?’.