Happy anniversary Sophie and Matt
Acircle of 18 close family and special friends gathered in a woodland glade among the bluebells to witness Sophie and Matt’s heartfelt wedding ceremony. A lantern stood on a rustic table in which a candle was lit for those unable to be present for whatever reason, in particular Matt’s father.
I welcomed everyone to the beautiful wooded surroundings, recalling the history and folklore.
A love poem written by Matt’s father was read in his honour.
The elements of earth, air, fire, and water were welcomed into our midst.
I called upon the representatives to speak their part in turn: North – earth – read by Laura South – fire -–read by Kev East – air – read by Jason West – water – read by Maurice I had sent the couple a list of questions to inspire them to consider their relationship and vision for the future. Both, came back to me privately with answers; these I read out, each hearing the words written by the other for the first time.
Sophie, this is what Matt wrote about you….
Matt, this is what Sophie wrote about you...
I blessed the rings: “These rings are daily reminders of your love and commitment to one another.” Sophie and Matt exchanged rings.
Hand-fasting is an ancient tradition in which the bride and groom’s wrists are bound symbolising their indissoluble love. Sophie chose a silver cord as in the book Harry Potter & the Half Blood Prince. The couple liked the analogy.
I wrapped the silver cord around Sophie and Matt’s wrists as they spoke in turn their heart-felt vows to one another.
Sophie and Matt were pronounced: ‘husband and wife’ with an invitation to kiss.
Sophie’s sisters served cake and wine, a tradition from the past when clans gathered for such an occasion; the sharing of food and drink signifying a truce and goodwill.
I thanked the four elements and read a Final Blessing.
The newly-weds left the circle by jumping over a broom which symbolised the sweeping clean of old ties and creating a new life together. Everyone cheered and showered them in rose petals.
A heart-warming lunch followed at a local pub. Later, the couple legalised their marriage at a hotel where they partied with family and friends well into the evening.
Jean Francis is a One Spirit Interfaith Minister and celebrant. She is the founder and inspiration director of Last Wishes, an organisation which seeks to encourage people to think about their legacy and have open conversations with their loved ones about their end-of-life wishes.