Empathy with the loss of a parent

I HAVE every empathy with Martin Hesp (October 23) regarding the loss of a parent.

Having been a full time carer for my dad for four years and seen him through end of life care at home; I understand.

As a Christian I take great comfort knowing that he is now in heaven and any tears that I shed are actually for myself; he is far better off where he is: I am simply sad because I miss him.

I am comforted knowing that I will see dad again in heaven where: “Every tear will be wiped from our eyes and there will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain” (Revelation 21;4).”

This trust in what the Bible says about life after death is based on the factual resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead. One of the greatest lawyers in British history, Sir Lionel Luckhoo wrote: “The evidence for the Resurrection of Jesus Christ is so overwhelming that it compels acceptance by proof which leaves absolutely no room for doubt.”

Martin questions death and asks; “what sort of god would invent such a cruel and nasty system?” God did not “invent” death; God created all things “very good” (Genesis 1:31) It was Satan who tempted Adam and Eve to sin which is how the curse of death came upon the world (Genesis 2:17; 3:4, Romans 5:12). Thankfully Jesus offers a remedy.

Whilst I remember dad with great affection I can happily carry on life knowing that our separation is only temporary; as the apostle Paul wrote: “O death where is thy sting?” (1 Corinthians 15:55).

This is the Christian gospel of peace and hope offered to those who have lost loved ones of all ages.

Gareth Jones

Plymouth