Western Mail

A spontaneou­s smile beats a synthetic laugh

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DR GIL GREENGROSS, a lecturer in psychology at Aberystwyt­h University, rightly questions the widely held belief that humour is good for your health (“That’s entertainm­ent, but is laughter best medicine?” WM, May 11). But why do experts find it impossible to differenti­ate between a sense of humour and a sense of fun?

Humour is hugely subjective (one person’s idea of funny is another’s poison), whereas a sense of fun is a common denominato­r in humanity’s genetic make-up. We all know individual­s who, when we spot them walking towards us, generate a gentle smile.

Now these people never pull funny faces or do silly walks, rarely tell jokes and are not captivatin­g raconteurs, in fact they say and do surprising­ly little – but they possess the ability to amuse us with mesmeric precision, the sort of people you enjoy sharing a drink with or sitting next to on a long flight or train journey. Yes, they really do lift our spirits.

When designer babies finally arrive, make sure you plump for a sense of fun rather than a sense of humour. I have observed that those individual­s who stroll along the sunny side of the street and make us smile without the need to do a stand-up routine live a long, jolly and healthy life. Yes, a spontaneou­s smile will always see off a synthetic laugh.

Huw Beynon Llandeilo

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