Three simple ways to help you beat stress
FROM a small annoyance like getting stuck in traffic, to a major crisis like a sudden change in your financial situation, stressful situations are a natural part of life. But too much chronic stress can be detrimental to our health. Here are some stressre
VISUALISE A SAFE PLACE
“ESSENTIALLY you picture yourself in a place where you have previously felt completely content and relaxed,” says Dr Paul McLaren, a general adult psychiatrist and medical director at the Priory Hospital Hayes Grove (priorygroup.com). It could be a favourite holiday destination, a garden or another place of comfort.
“Actively bring your destination to mind by trying to connect with the different senses you associate with the place.
“Start by closing your eyes and imagining what you can see around you, before taking in the imaginary sounds too – it could be softly crashing waves or birds in the trees.
“Next, bring to mind the smells you’d be able to experience too, and the sensation of your feet on the ground.”
After 10 minutes, Dr McLaren says you should start to feel calmer.
ALTERNATE NOSTRIL BREATHING
JUST focusing on your breath or changing the way you breathe can make a big difference to your overall stress levels, says Chatty Dobson, yoga teacher and owner of FLEX Chelsea (flexchelsea.com).
“Although you may not realise it, we have one dominant nostril at any one time, and they (are thought to) alternate (roughly) every 90 minutes (depending on the individual).
“Take a comfortable seat, sitting tall and rest the left hand gently on the left thigh or in the lap.
“Bring your right hand into a ‘peace’ sign, and then switch the thumb and fingers so that the index and middle finger are in your palm. Your thumb and little finger should be extended.
“Take a deep inhalation and close the right nostril with the thumb.
“Exhale through the left nostril to the count of four. Next, close the left nostril with the little finger, release the thumb, and inhale through the right nostril to the count of four.
“Repeat this for at least 10 rounds, or until you start feeling calmer.”
LOOSEN AND AFFIRM
PSYCHOTHERAPIST Nick Davies (ndhypnotherapy.com) recommends taking a moment to physically address any tension.
“Make your body go as loose, limp and floppy as possible by sitting back in your chair or lying down, and relaxing every muscle from the top of your head down to the tips of your toes.”
He suggests trying to ignore unhelpful thoughts and focus on breathing diaphragmatically (taking deep breaths by contracting the diaphragm), as this can help activate the ‘parasympathetic nervous system’ in the brain, responsible for returning the body to rest.
“Then slowly repeat the following affirmations five times each in your head: ‘I am calm and relaxed’, ‘I am safe and well’, ‘I’ve got through this before and will again,”’ recommends Nick.