Who Do You Think You Are?

BOOKS & DATA DISCS

by Tania O’Donnell

- Ruth Symes is a writer and historian

This month’s family history inspiratio­n

Pen & Sword, 137 pages, £12.99

This book is an entertaini­ng romp through some of the more intriguing aspects of courtship. It is organised into topics such as ‘Love at first sight’ and ‘Love tokens’ – all of which give it the appearance of being a self-help guide for modern lovers interested to find out how practices such as proposing on bended knee first originated.

Among well-known tidbits (including Lydia Bennett’s seduction by the rake Wickham), there are some eye-popping surprises including a saucy poem by John Wilmot, second Earl of Rochester (1647-1680). The illustrati­ons, which include cartoons, paintings and sketches, are a further delight.

O’Donnell’s introducti­on makes the case for covering 800 years, from the 12th century to the early 20th century, but this wide brief makes contextual­ising and evaluating each piece of material impossible. Wildly diverging historical moments are placed side by side and there are further lurches between American, British and European sources without considerat­ion of class and religious difference­s, and sketchy discussion of the laws at particular moments. Examples from literature and advice books are included without the question being asked as to whether real courtships were conducted in similar ways. For these reasons, it’s difficult to understand quite why certain practices evolved.

Providing you aren’t expecting serious historical analysis, you will enjoy this book as a collection of delicious soundbites on courtship.

 ??  ?? A suitor makes his partiality known while a pouting chaperone looks on
A suitor makes his partiality known while a pouting chaperone looks on
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