1 Learn the art of benign detachment

THIS IS CRUCIAL IF YOU’RE ONE OF THOSE WOMEN WHO EVERYONE takes FROM – AND THIS APPLIES TO A LOT OF US. YOU MIGHT BE A MOTHER LOOKING AFTER YOUR CHILDREN, OR A DAUGHTER CARING FOR ELDERLY PARENTS. YOU ARE CAPABLE AND CAN COPE SO EVERYONE RELIES ON YOU. EVERYONE ELSE’S HAPPINESS BECOMES YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. LEARN TO DETACH YOURSELF FROM THE PROBLEMS OF OTHERS.