Suzie says

I hear from a lot of people who start a relationship wishing their partner was different and hoping things will change. I have news for you – it hardly ever works. To change the other person has to care that the situation hurts you and work to make it different. And, in your case, this man has no reason to do so. You’re not putting pressure on him because he simply doesn’t notice it. He’s getting what he wants – a place to stay and a woman willing to put up with a total lack of commitment. My advice? Find someone who does care.