COULD HE STILL HAVE MY NUDES?

QIn January, I had an affair with a married man that included taking sexy photos of each other. When we split, I deleted mine, but he hasn’t confirmed he’s deleted the shots of me.

Susan says

AYou’re assuming your lover hasn’t replied because he hasn’t deleted those sexy shots. But maybe he just wants a clean break. Or because he’s deleted all your personal details from his phone, including the shots. Either way, best to relax – not least because, being married, he has far more to lose here than you if the affair is discovered. I suspect no news is good news.