Yorkshire Post

JAYNE DOWLE on Monday

- Jayne Dowle

I’VE always told my children to get out there and explore the world. My words rang slightly hollow last week as I waved my 17-year-old son off to Blackpool, his first trip to the seaside without parental supervisio­n.

Social distancing? How can I preach when Jack has been working in a supermarke­t all year, coming into regular contact with strangers?

And, to be honest, I was more worried about the fact that five lads were about to set off over the M62 in a VW Polo.

My absolute worst parental nightmare is a car full of young people travelling at speed.

I’ve worked with Brake, the Huddersfie­ld-based road safety charity. I’ve seen the spinechill­ing videos it uses to educate youngsters.

“I’ll be fine, mum, stop worrying,” Jack said as he arranged his 6ft 3in frame in the back. He reminded me that the lad driving is in the Army, therefore duty-bound to stick to the rules of the road or face disciplina­ry action.

This comforted me (a bit). What about the rest of the rules though? We’ve all seen the footage of half a million people crowding onto Bournemout­h beach in the heatwave. I didn’t want a call from the local constabula­ry informing me my big daft lad was in trouble for unwittingl­y breaching some law.

To be fair, given the three months of lockdown our teenagers have already endured and the long months stretching ahead before Jack can return to college in September, I can’t begrudge him any kind of fun.

Several of his friends have been laid off from their apprentice­ships as surplus to requiremen­ts. I know the Government has much more pressing matters on its mind than fulfilling optimised life chances for teenagers, but Ministers do need to pay serious heed to the growing disconnect­ion this generation feels.

Horizons have narrowed. Suddenly. And not just for the young. Since March, I haven’t been further than Sheffield Ikea. Our Easter break to Barcelona was cancelled and our August trip abroad now hangs in the balance.

I’m a great advocate of independen­t travel. However,

I do resent some of the sniffier comments criticisin­g British holidaymak­ers who feel entitled to their all-inclusive “two weeks in the sun”.

Personally, my idea of holiday hell would be a fortnight lying on a sunbed too stuffed to roll into the pool, but each to their own. And frankly, I’ll go anywhere. These days I get excited at the prospect of taking the dog for a long walk around the reservoir.

Growing up in Barnsley in the 1980s, I learned early on that travel always broadens the mind. Since they were old enough to pull their own cabin bags, I’ve been determined to show my children how to go under their own steam.

We’ve driven from Hollywood to San Diego in winter, explored France by train and spent last New Year in a guest house by the docks in Naples. It was a cheap last-minute thing booked on a fanciful whim but I will treasure the memories of this overseas trip. It may be our last one for a while.

This summer’s adventure – flying to Venice for two nights, taking a ferry to Pula in Croatia and then a week of R&R by the beach in the seaside town of Fazana – is looking questionab­le, in all senses.

Our flight to Venice from Leeds Bradford was cancelled for Covid-related operationa­l reasons last week.

I’m juggling alternativ­es, but the thought of airport restrictio­ns, possibly flying in a face mask, getting locked down in a foreign country and the prospect of a 14-day quarantine on return is more than worrying.

I don’t trust the Government to come up with a coherent plan for overseas travel.

The situation, as they say, is “fluid”. And frankly, for all the talk of air bridges and so on, I don’t trust the Government to come up with a coherent and reassuring plan for overseas travel this year.

Still, in these taxing times, we all need a break. As soon as the Prime Minister announced holiday parks could open again, I seized the moment and secured a long weekend in a caravan at Thornwick Bay.

We love it here so much. We cancelled a planned summer trip to Cornwall last year and spent a wonderful week exploring Bempton Cliffs, Cayton Bay, Scarboroug­h, Hornsea and Withernsea instead.

Yorkshire has so much to offer, even to hoary old travellers like me. And with the future of tourism body Welcome to Yorkshire uncertain, I feel proud to be doing my own little bit.

I can still dream of overseas adventures, but there’s nothing more uplifting for the soul than the sight of Flamboroug­h Lighthouse.

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