Decided to try online dating?
You’ll be glad to know the basics haven’t changed – it’s still just two people who are interested in getting to know each other...
And to really stand out from the crowd, you need to make sure your profile is up to scratch The first thing you’ll need is a photo as you’re significantly more likely to get messages if you’ve got one on your profile. This should be a clear head and shoulders shot with you looking relaxed and happy – everyone looks beautiful when they’re happy. Try to include a selection of photos, so you can show off your personality – include pictures of you doing things you enjoy so you’re giving people an idea of your interests. Include group photos, but make sure to include those of just you too, so people can tell who you are.
Now fill in your details and write a short description about yourself. If you’re struggling, have a look at other people’s profiles for inspiration or ask your friends to write something about you, then use snippets from what they write. Include details about what you enjoy, things you’d like to try, what sort of relationship you’re looking for and what traits you’d most like in a partner. Highlight your best and most interesting attributes as this all helps paint a better picture of you, so you’ll know when someone gets in touch, that they really are interested.
Give some insights into your life, such as achievements, hobbies and travel, as these make for great conversation starters. Try to keep it light-hearted though; people don’t need to know all the intimate details of your life straight away and if you get round to meeting up, you can expand the conversation.
Spend a few minutes each day adding to or editing your profile. This helps keep your profile fresh and interesting.
The important thing to remember is to be honest about yourself and what you’re looking for, and be open minded towards anyone who approaches you.