Baltimore Sun Sunday Choosing an officiant you know 2017-02-19 - Choose someone who knows you and your spouse well. PHOTO COURTESY OF KIRSTEN WESTBROOK The Rev. Kirsten Blom-Westbrook presided over the wedding of Dan Guzman, left, and Tom Hudgins. Blom-Westbrook has married about 2,200 couples. “If you get nervous or stage fright, it’s not for you,” she says of marriage officiating.