Decorating a nursery?
Shop with care to avoid regrets down the line
Preparing for the arrival of a baby is daunting for many reasons, not least because it requires purchasing so many items.
Everyone — your neighbor, your great-aunt, your college roommate — will give you advice. It’s easy to be sold on the idea that you need this, that and, oh, definitely the other thing.
As a parent watching my kids grow — and a professional organizer watching clients’ kids grow — I’ve realized many of us wish we’d received different advice. Here’s what I’ve learned. It just might spare you regrets down the line. Dressers versus changing tables
In lieu of a changing table, consider a large dresser with the changing pad placed on top. Choose a dresser that will accommodate your kids’ clothes as they grow. If you buy one sized for those itty-bitty onesies and tiny tops and pants, you’ll need another when your kids are 4 or 5; the clothes get bigger, too. Also think about the furniture’s style and whether the design will endure. Pint-sized bookshelves
The same concept holds for bookshelves. If you start small because you have only a dozen board books, you’ll find that you need to replace or supplement the bookshelf within three to five years. Instead, use the vertical space in the room and buy something taller. The higher shelves are perfect for displaying photos, special keepsakes and awards in the years ahead. And even if the bookshelf sits half-empty for a year, it will be full before you know it. Here again, go for somethe thing with a timeless design, so that if you need to use the bookshelf elsewhere, it will fit in with the rest of your home’s decor. Beds: Toddler, twin, trundle?
Although I think it’s wise to buy a crib that converts into a toddler bed, especially if you’re tight on space, I know only a few people who have actually converted. Most people end up either passing the crib along to a second child or not converting because they’ve misplaced the necessary components.
A toddler bed can be ideal if rooms are small or if kids are sharing a room. But if you have enough space, it’s easier and more costeffective to go straight to a twin bed when your child moves out of the crib. It may mean that the mattress sits on the floor for a time during the transition or you may need a bedrail. Bypassing the toddler bed will save money, and you’ll also have one less thing to get rid of when you’re finished with it.
Many parents contemplate a trundle when buying a twin bed. Generally, trundles are a wise investment, and it’s best to buy them when you’re buying bed frame in case the model is later discontinued. But your child won’t start having sleepovers at 2 or 3, so hold off on buying the additional twin mattress and instead use the trundle to store blankets, stuffed animals or clothes that your child has yet to grow into. Rockers and gliders
People often regret buying a rocker specifically marketed for nurseries. It’s nice to have a chair in the baby’s room, and if it rocks, that’s a bonus. Go with something more conventional so it can grow with the child or eventually be used elsewhere in your home. Cutesy characters
None of us want to believe we’re sacrificing something fun or cute for our children simply because it won’t match our home’s aesthetic, so we cave and buy the characterthemed rug, bookshelf, chair or lamp. But any large character-themed item likely won’t be a great investment. If your child is obsessed with a character, movie or collection, go for themed throw pillows, blankets or wall decals.