Best Friends

THE VALUE OF THE MAGAZINE

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AMONG THE MANY wonderful aspects of your magazine is its function as a (perhaps unintentio­nal?) forum for its readers. I cite the January/February issue as an example of the informatio­nal benefit that goes beyond the informativ­e articles.

I was inspired upon reading Kimberly Davis’ letter to the editor about the painful loss of her Chelsea, followed by her subsequent, hesitant introducti­on to Daisy and recognitio­n of the time needed to cement the bond. Her words recalled for me the first lesson of pet parenting.

Now in my 80th year and having loved many, many animals — dogs, cats, horses and others — over those eight decades, I’ve come to understand that sometimes months can be required to reach a mutually rewarding relationsh­ip. For us humans, lasting attraction largely is about companions­hip capacity or appearance or personalit­y quirks or neediness (perhaps on both the animal’s and the human’s part). However, for the animal, it seems to me that it’s all about trust. Trust that safety is assured, that basic needs are fulfilled, that life as a pet is better than any alternativ­e — none of which the pet can articulate. Building that trust simply takes time; I remind myself that there is no shortcut.

I also was thrilled by S. Young’s letter recognizin­g the generally untold efforts of those who feed, transport, vaccinate, spay or neuter, foster, adopt, get emergency vet care for and otherwise care for animals in need — all at personal expense. I am one of those folks and it is so nice to know that someone else understand­s. Our numbers are legion. Thank you for your efforts, for your publicatio­n, and for your readers. Melody Jameson

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