Public embrace for celeb addicts offers hope
NEW YORK — Beneath sparkling chandeliers hanging in the famed Rainbow Room, as a gala crowd dotted with rock stars sat around whiteclothed dinner tables, Ringo Starr stood at a podium and described what it felt like to be 30 years sober.
With wife Barbara Bach Starkey — herself a recovering alcoholic — at his side, the former Beatle described what it took for him to get help and called for more resources and acceptance for the treatment movement that saved their lives.
“I was living my life so great,” Ringo said at the recent fundraiser for the addiction advocacy nonprofit Facing Addiction with NCADD. “I was one of those really nice pass-out, blackout drunks. Anyway, I came to one night and … out of a blackout, I came to the next day and I had done a lot of damage. I was about to lose the love of my life, Barbara, and everything else. It was my moment.”
Starr was rewarded with a warm embrace from guests, some in recovery themselves or touched by addiction in other ways. But it wasn’t all that long ago, for the high-profile and the Every Kid, that the stigma of addiction was so great, careers, families and lives were ruined if word leaked. For some stars, the disease of addiction turned them into public mockeries. The addiction battles of Whitney Houston and Amy Winehouse were comic foils for others, for example.
Such a backlash continues for many, but more celebrities are detailing their struggles and roads to recovery in the moment, taking advantage of social media and the 24/7 news cycle to reveal all, soak up support and reach out.
Demi Lovato took to Instagram with a health update not long after her recent overdose: “I have always been transparent about my journey with addiction. What I’ve learned is that this illness is not something that disappears or fades with time. It is something I must continue to overcome and have not done yet.”
She thanked God and her family — and thousands and thousands of admirers offered up their love on her page.
Ben Affleck did the same after he exited a rehab program for his alcohol addiction. Russell Brand even wrote a book about it, “Recovery: Freedom from Our Addictions,” calling this the age of addiction, “a condition so epidemic, so all-encompassing and ubiquitous that unless you are fortunate enough to be an extreme case, you probably don’t know that you have it.”
So how does all the truth-telling and wellness talk trickle down from celebrities to the streets? Nicely, said people on other sides of the equation.
“One of the greatest obstacles for individuals from seeking treatment for addiction is the stigma surrounding addiction and their experience of shame. The more celebrities who are willing to be transparent about their addiction and recovery, the more we can offer hope to all families struggling with addiction,” said therapist and drug counselor John Hamilton, who heads outreach for Mountainside, which has a residential treatment facility in Canaan, Connecticut.