Boyfriend in his 20s lacks driver’s license
Dear Abby: My boyfriend, “Mark,” and I have been dating for three months but have been friends for about eight years. Neither of us have it together ( career- wise) at the moment. Mark is two years older than me.
For some reason, he’s hesitant about getting his driver’s license. When I brought it up when he was a senior in high school— we were just friends then— he said he was going to get it before graduation. That was seven years ago.
Nowhe’s my boyfriend, and I feel weird picking him up and dropping him off. His excuse is he wants to perfect parallel parking. When I got my driver’s license, I did just OK with parallel parking, but I passed the driving test. How do I approach him about getting his driver’s license? Getting Nowhere in Georgia
Dear Getting Nowhere: For whatever reason, I suspect that Mark hasn’t been completely honest about why he hasn’t gotten his driver’s license. Approach him directly, and tell him you are uncomfortable providing all the transportation. And if his excuse is he wants to perfect his parallel parking, suggest he take a driver’s education course.
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We have been invited to gettogethers several times only to be instructed to bring our own drinks and an appetizer to share.
When we entertain, we don’t expect our guests to bring anything. Is this the norm? Confused in Florida
Dear Confused: It may be the norm in the community where you are now living, but it’s news to me. I have heard of a BYOB party, and I have heard of a potluck party, but never a “Bring Your Own EVERYTHING” party.
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When I brought it up when hewas a senior in high school— wewere just friends then— he said hewas going to get it before graduation. That was seven years ago.