Devotion: The decision to forgive

Have you ever considered forgiveness as a Spiritual practice?

Forgiveness begins with a decision to begin a process that will last a lifetime. Without being able to forgive we carry resentment with us until it festers and flows out into all areas of our life. Ephesians 4:32: “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

Matthew 6:14 “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.” These verses remind us that we must forgive, so that we ourselves may be forgiven.

There is no chart to tell us which sins we are to forgive or which sins are unforgivable.

When Jesus was on the cross he said, “Father, forgive them, they know not what they do.” Jesus forgave people even to his last breath. With all that has happened this last year people are carrying heavy burdens, they are getting on each other nerves and tempers are short. This is a prime time to practice forgiveness.

Forgiveness is not saying the right words. It does not ignore the hurt or put a bandage on it. It is not passive. Forgiveness is not avoiding conflict or running away from the situation. It is not simple-minded or weak.

Forgiveness is an action that breaks the cycle of hurt. Forgiveness can begin the process of restoring a broken relationship. It allows us to claim our power and strengthen the wisdom of our heart.

Albert Haase, OFM writes: “Forgiveness is memory enshrined in mercy.” During this season of Lent I would encourage you to consider making forgiveness a part of your daily spiritual practice.

As you forgive others remember to forgive yourself. It is a process and it won’t happen overnight, but to be able to forgive you will bring a sense of peace to your life and to the life others.

It is a gift to be able to forgive others and yourself. Now is the time to get started!