Mary Lillian O’Brien, 77, of Lake Katrine

Mary Lillian O’Brien, 77, a longtime resident of Lake Katrine, died Friday, April 7, 2017, at her home, surrounded by her children.

Born in Boston, Mass., she was the daughter of the late Michael and Mary (McViney) Feehly.

It has been said that a life well lived is measured by love, by sacrifice and by joy. Mom dedicated her life to the care of others: husband, children, grandchildren, elderly relatives and ailing friends. She sacrificed her time and her energies for others and did not seek accolades or great riches; she loved unconditionally and brought joy to us all.

Mary is survived by her four children, Mary E. “Babe” O’Brien of Poughkeepsie, Michelle O’Brien Zihal and her husband Michael of Saratoga Springs, N.Y., Timothy J. O’Brien of Kingston and Sean M. O’Brien of Lake Katrine and his companion Anita Reynolds of Kingston; a sister, Margurite LaFlamme and her husband Paul of Stoughton, Mass.; a brother, Michael W. Feehly and his wife Nancy of Pawleys Island, S.C.; and five grandchildren, Leah O’Brien, Emily Zihal, Kevin Zihal, Teige O’Brien and Matthew Zihal.

In addition to her parents, Mary was predeceased by her husband of 56 years, Joseph T. O’Brien, who passed away in 2014; a beloved daughter, Patricia M. O’Brien (1980) and a brother, John Feehly (1999).

Mary will be reposing at Simpson-Gaus Funeral Home, 411 Albany Ave., Kingston, on Tuesday, April 11, 2017, from 5 to 8 p.m.

A funeral procession will form from the funeral home on Wednesday at 9 a.m.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. at St. Colman’s Church in East Kingston.

Interment will follow at St. Anne’s Cemetery.

For many, care giving can be a chore, but for our family it was a gift of time with Mom. Our family has been fortunate to have good friends during this time. We thank Anita Reynolds for her great kindness to Mom, her love and support. We thank our good friend Kathy Sinatra, who joined us in providing the best care possible for Mom during her illness. The loving care she gave Mom made all the difference. We also thank the wonderful staff at Hudson Valley Hospice for their expert support and compassion.

Memorial donations may be made to the Ulster County Community College Foundation: The Patricia M. O’Brien Scholarship Fund, or St. Jude Children’s Research, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, Tenn. 38105.

Online condolences may be left for the family of Mary by visiting www. SimpsonGaus.com.