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To write to Hol­i­day Mathis, visit www.cre­ators.com/ author/hol­i­day-mathis and click “Con­tact.” DEAR ABBY >> I’m about to get cus­tody of my daugh­ter af­ter four years, so I’m a lit­tle out of the par­ent­ing eti­quette loop. A friend of mine has a daugh­ter, “Au­tumn,” who is an ab­so­lute ter­ror and a bully. The girl has been rude to my daugh­ter dur­ing the times she has vis­ited. I know I won’t be able to avoid so­cial func­tions be­cause Au­tumn’s fam­ily is al­ways in­vited to a mu­tual friend’s events. My daugh­ter wants noth­ing to do with her, and I don’t know how to eas­ily avoid play dates. Please ad­vise.

— Per­plexed in the West

DEAR PER­PLEXED >> Talk to Au­tumn’s par­ents about her be­hav­ior, so it can be cor­rected. If you are wor­ried about your daugh­ter hav­ing to in­ter­act with the girl, sug­gest that she so­cial­ize with the other chil­dren at the event and stay out of Au­tumn’s way. If the girl acts out against your daugh­ter, tell your child she is wel­come to come and spend some time with you. While you can’t com­pletely in­su­late her from un­pleas­ant peers, this may lessen the pain. DEAR ABBY >> I’m in high school, and I’m hav­ing some prob­lems with my friend “Dave.” I’m in ev­ery one of his classes, and he keeps com­ing to me and ask­ing if I want to work with him. I need to say no, but I don’t know how. It would be nice to work with other friends, but how do I tell that to Dave?

— Con­necti­cut sopho­more

DEAR SOPHO­MORE >> Be frank with your friend. All you have to say is: “Dave, I like work­ing with you — but I also want to work with other peo­ple. If we both work with some of the oth­ers, it will keep us sharper.” And if he in­di­cates that he’s tak­ing it as a per­sonal re­jec­tion, tell him it isn’t true — that you like him, but think it’s not smart for ei­ther of you to limit your­selves. (It’s the truth.)

DEAR ABBY >> I could use some ad­vice about fam­ily roles. Mine al­ways seems to be the peace­keeper and mediator. With­out go­ing into too much de­tail, my fam­ily has some is­sues, and they usu­ally vol­un­teer me to fix the prob­lem. It’s ex­tremely stress­ful, and I feel guilty when I don’t suc­ceed.

I am a travel nurse, and I ac­cepted an as­sign­ment across the coun­try to try to step back from it. Some of the drama fol­lows me here, but it’s noth­ing like when I was home. My guilt con­tin­ues be­cause I feel like my duty is to be with my fam­ily, es­pe­cially my sis­ter, who is emo­tion­ally co-de­pen­dent on me. Any ad­vice to help di­vide the roles?

— Over­whelmed in Phoenix

DEAR OVER­WHELMED >> Please stop feel­ing like you did some­thing wrong in tak­ing that as­sign­ment. You made the right choice. By do­ing it, you have gifted your fam­ily with the op­por­tu­nity to learn to deal with its is­sues with­out re­ly­ing ex­clu­sively on you. By now it should have dawned on YOU that you can­not fix your sis­ter’s co-de­pen­dency prob­lem. Only she can do that, if she’s will­ing to rec­og­nize that she has a prob­lem and ac­cept that a li­censed psy­chother­a­pist — and not her sis­ter — can pro­vide her with the tools to over­come it.

Dear Abby is writ­ten by Abi­gail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Con­tact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los An­ge­les, CA 90069.

To or­der “How to Write Letters for All Oc­ca­sions,” send your name and mail­ing address, plus check or money or­der for $7 (U.S. funds) to: Dear Abby — Let­ter Book­let, P.O. Box 447, Mount Mor­ris, IL 61054-0447. Ship­ping and han­dling are in­cluded in the price.

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