Host a multigenerational game night to connect during the holiday season
Monopoly takes forever. Candy Land is dull, Chutes and Ladders preachy, the Game of Life troubling in its implications. So even as parents scramble for offscreen entertainment over the holidays, the prospect of a family game night may drive them to despair.
Some good news: We are living through a 24-karat golden age of tabletop games, an amusement renaissance that sees thousands of board games published every year, in a dizzying array of story, strategy and design. How to pick a game that will delight the youngest players without boring older ones silly?
“You need a game that’s going to appeal to everybody. And that’s not easy,” said Erik Arneson, author of “How to Host a Game Night.”
But it’s not impossible either. Most children tend to pick up games pretty quickly. Starting with basic versions can prepare them for more complicated ones. At first,Set the bar for entertainment low: Everyone plays, no one cries. Then work up to something more absorbing.
If your group includes sore losers and bad winners, try cooperative games, in which everyone plays against the game itself. Or opt for team-based play, in which stronger players can help weaker ones. Games with an element of randomness can help, game designer Nick Fortugno suggested.
“A game that has a lot of card draws from a deck or a lot of dice rolls tends to be a little more forgiving,” he said, because a win rests on luck rather than skill.
Here are a few suggestions, encompassing a variety of approaches and mechanics, to get the dice rolling:
ICECOOL
A game straightforward enough for the kindergarten set that will keep adults immersed, too, ICECOOL casts players as class-cutting penguins. Players take turns flicking bobble-headed pieces around the board, trying to catch fish, while a no-fun hall monitor tries to catch them.
“It’s a game of manual dexterity and muscle memory,” said Jon Freeman, owner of the
Brooklyn Strategist, a game shop and afterschool program in New York. “And who doesn’t like flicking penguins?”
Ticket to Ride
A perfect introduction to the style of strategy game prominent in Europe since the 1980s, Ticket to Ride has players build routes across various cities, countries, continents and eras, depending on the edition you select. (There’s also Rails and Sails, which includes oceans.) The mechanics are simple and the design — those little train cars! — is appealing. For younger players, start with Ticket to Ride First Journey, an easier version that chugs along briskly and also teaches some basic geography. It adapts beautifully to team play.
Forbidden Island
In this cooperative game, with exquisite design and a climate-change underpinning, players race against the game, saving precious artifacts as an island sinks into the sea. Will you make it to your helicopter in time?
“It’s very exciting,” Arneson said. Play isn’t too complicated, and players can help one another as they race against the water level. Another plus: You can rig the game for harder or easier play. If you can’t stop saving artifacts, its maker has also released Forbidden Desert and Forbidden Sky.
Sushi Go!
Card games have a lot of advantages. They are tidy, inexpensive, relatively effortless to learn and easy to store. But if you find gin, hearts, poker or bridge insufficiently adorable, try
Sushi Go! Players score points by matching varieties of ridiculously cute sushi bites.
Fortugno described it as a great game for both amateur and experienced players. “It scales very nicely between ‘I’m just messing around, having a good time’ and ‘I’m really playing,’ ” he said.
Pen and paper
If you would rather not buy any game, try pen and paper games, designed or easily adapted for team play. Charades is an enduring classic, and you can hack Pictionary in a snap. There’s also Celebrity, in which players pick slips of paper inscribed with the names of the famous from a bowl and attempt to describe them in a few words for their teammates.
Is Peppa Pig a celebrity? Ask younger members of your household.