Teams, players finding ways to fend off holiday loneliness
MINNEAPOLIS — Eric Curry texted his mom last week. He needed a headshot of her and his sister.
The photo request was not for a social media post or a scrapbook project, but rather an effort by the fifthyear senior forward to give his closest family members the chance, virtually, to be present for Minnesota’s upcoming games.
When the Gophers host Iowa in an empty Williams Arena tonight, the good tidings of great joy will have to come from those cardboard faces of parents, siblings and friends strategically placed in prime seats nearest the court.
“That made my heart smile,” said Curry’s mother, Audrea Phipps. “I feel like every player needs to have cutouts of their families in those stands, and that’s for every team across the country. That would so help those kids, to be able to feel like we’re there with them.”
College basketball teams are accustomed to being busy through the holidays, often absent for family gatherings on Thanksgiving in particular. This pandemic-altered season feels even more isolated with campuses largely cleared out and arena doors closed to fans in many places.
Christmas Day itself is usually reserved for college football and the NBA, but not this year: The Big Ten scheduled four games — Wisconsin at Michigan State, Maryland at Purdue, Michigan at Nebraska and Iowa at Minnesota — today. They are the only college hoops games scheduled.
“We’re all not too excited about that. No knock against Nebraska, but Christmas Day, I don’t think anyone wants to travel away from their place,” said Michigan forward Isaiah Livers. “Although, still, you’ve got to think about it as being grateful and being blessed and having an opportunity to be on the court.”
N o r m a l l y, family members would make an event of it and see their sons play in person, but state restrictions and conference protocols aimed at stopping the virus spread have prevented so many of these visits. Instead of traveling to Minnesota, Curry’s mother, sister and grandmother will watch from their home in Little Rock, Arkansas.
“He knows I’m always watching, but it’s different when you’re there in person,” Phipps said. “They may be adult-like and have grown-men bodies and all that, but they’re still kids, honestly. Eric, today, if something goes wrong, he’s still going to call me because I need to fix it for him.”
Programs across the country have attempted to ramp up mental health support at a time when the potential for anxiety or loneliness has spiked for players along with everyone else. There is extra stress, too, each time they arrive for a COVID-19 test, realizing a positive result will force them out of action and away from their surrogate family.
“The emotional and mental fatigue and exhaustion and trauma, even though that may not be the appropriate word, it’s much more real than you imagine,” Texas A&Mcoach Buzz Williams said.