Tinley Park case shows need to be vigilant on domestic violence

The recent tragedy in Tinley Park where a 17-year-old high school senior girl lost her life to domestic violence allegedly at the hands of her abusive father is weighing heavy on our hearts and our community.

Domestic violence can impact anyone. It’s all about exerting power and control over another person, and it’s never OK. Every nine seconds a woman is beaten, yet despite increased awareness of domestic violence, it continues to be a public health crisis. Major sports leagues, television networks and local governments have spoken out about zero tolerance, yet cases of domestic violence continue to grow at epidemic proportions.

The Crisis Center for South Suburbia is here to support victims of domestic violence, including children and youth. We work hard to provide domestic violence prevention and education at high schools through our Safe Start program, but as a community we need to be vigilant and watch for signs of domestic violence, especially because it’s not always at the hands of an intimate partner. We need to be there when someone is in trouble before another life is lost or traumatized.

If you are a victim of domestic violence and don’t feel safe, we are here to help. If you feel isolated and alone because someone is controlling you, reach out. I want to live in a world free from violence, don’t you? Call our 24-hour hotline for support, emergency shelter, resources or just to talk. Our help and services are free and confidential. Call 708-429-SAFE (7233) or visit www. crisisctr.org.