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The sweetness of lost things

- Daryn Kagan What’s Possible Daryn Kagan is the author of the book “Hope Possible: A Network News Anchor’s Thoughts On Losing Her Job, Finding Love, A New Career, And My Dog, Always My Dog.” Email her at Daryn@darynkagan.com.

I could say it was the last place I thought of to look.

That would be misleading, as I never thought to look in the location this story ends.

It is such a simple thing how something so tiny can mess up your week.

By tiny, I mean earbud tiny. As in the actual earbud. There was a time not that long ago I didn’t even know I needed earbuds.

But since receiving a pair for Christmas, my earbuds have become more and more essential. They are a part of just every phase of my day.

I pop them in to listen to podcasts when Pup and I take our morning walk.

I use them to talk on the phone so that my hands can be free to write stuff down or multi-task.

They go in my ears to do my workouts. This is what I was about to do Friday.

I opened the case as I had done a hundred times that day. There was only one earbud to greet me. The hole where I expected to find the other one waiting for me might as well have been as big as The Grand Canyon.

I turned the house upside down. Bedroom. Kitchen. Office. I retraced my steps over and over.

The ear bud was nowhere to be found.

Finally, I turned it over to St. Anthony, the saint of lost things.

My mother taught me that this always works.

St. Anthony always comes through.

On his own time, which meant I had to get on with my single-bud life.

This brings me to my naughty candy habit. I’m kind of addicted to these little hard caramel candies.

I’ve been known after lunch to stuff a handful of them in my pocket for little treats to get me through my day.

I went in for an extra big scoop on Sunday, the better to drown my missing earbud sorrows.

As I reached my fingers down, I felt something unfamiliar­ly familiar.

Sure enough, there in the palm of my hand amidst the glistening gold foil wrappers was my missing white earbud.

It all came back to me.

How I had pulled the ear bud out when Husband came in to talk to me and shoved it in my pocket.

How I had noticed at the end of Friday that I had some leftover candy. I decided to be good and put those back in the candy bucket. I must’ve scooped my earbud up and put it back with the caramels.

You know how this is, Dear Reader?

Did you lose a treasure this week?

Did St. Anthony have your back? To remember that the things we love can be gone in a flash without any logical explanatio­n. How sweet it is to get it back. And most importantl­y, whatever you do, never ever put extra candy back in the bucket.

Eat more candy; lose fewer things.

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